No matter how much knowledge one gets, no matter how many motivational tapes you listen to, or gurus, if you are not feeling it you truly are not getting it.

I was listening to some music and decided to turn it off and put on motivational CD of Anthony Robbins , as I sat I asked myself a question while I was turning the music off, should I be listening to Anthony Robbins or listening and feeling the music, the answer came … FEELING.

My purpose for listening to him at that time was to get positive vibes. I was in a low energy point where I needed to change. I was feeling heavy all day and could not shake it. Breathing deep, meditation, positive thoughts, nothing really shook it. So what could I do to change the way I felt?

Most people do not know that their feelings are one of the most important guidance in life. Feelings actually tell you when you are moving in the right direction in life. Feelings also assist you in your state of being. What you are feeling is how you are being.

If you are feeling angry, you are being in an angry state. If you are feeling good you are being in a state of love. How you feel creates how you think. When you are feeling low, your thoughts and actions reflect this.

Since our thoughts create our life and its choices, it goes to show how we (are) feel(ing) is VERY important.

Positive feelings, creates positive thoughts, creates positive actions.

How does one change their state of feeling ? This is very difficult when one is not aware that they are feeling low. Sometimes we walk in automatic pilot and do not even realize that we are not feeling at all. Numb is the word. Numb most of the time, moving in auto pilot, without thought, without feelings. Doing what needs to be done, without thought.

The way to change your life is to be aware of what you are doing in life. Being aware of what we are thinking, doing, feeling. When we are aware, we can make conscious choices to change how we are experiencing our day. No…. I would say, experiencing our moments, for life is created by moments. In each Now moment of choices, we are changing our life. How we change our life, is by changing our feelings, one moment at a time.

How does one change what they are feeling? One way is to think about a time when you felt good, let that feeling permeate your moment. Think about anything that makes you feel good, your child, your home, your country, the flowers that you pass, the birds that sing. Make a conscious choice to change your feelings by doing so you make a choice to change your life. As you feel that good feeling close your eyes and breath deep and  really feel it. 

My favorite way is with music. Music changes my state in an instant. I feel music flow through my body and I take a deep breath as I feel it

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Music has changed the world. During the Depression and War years when the masses were feeling so low, they went to the movies, watching musicals which uplifted the masses. Whenever times get stressful have you noticed through our history how musicals become popular. Makes you feel good, assisting in making positive choices.

Music uplifts you and brings you to a higher place in your STATE, as Tony Robbins would put it, so it is the state of your being is the most important, this is where higher thoughts come from the well being state, which makes you choose the highest choices for you in the moment. If you are in thinking mode without feelings you are not in highest mode, which is feeling state. The feelings state creates the most positive thoughts and actions, when coming from love.

When you are feeling grateful, a joy of living, nothing needs to be said only the actions that are followed shows how you feel, in this state you can feel your highest desire and move towards it. When you are in thinking state you are numb to your feelings for the mind shouts, and hides the feelings.

When you are in the being state of love and gratitude, it is the highest state into manifesting desires. You become a strong magnet, you find that which you desire starts to manifest in your life and the life changes without effort this is a secret.

The thinking state is like a whisper, you achieve your desires yet they are slow to manifest for the feelings have not drawn the desire to you.

As you are in your moments of positive feelings and thinking you manifest joyful existence and watch your aliveness continue to manifest your desires without effort. Most of all it happens before you know it for you are feeling what is in the moment of your life, the NOW is being expressed fully in love, the time is not being watched for life is being experienced fully.

The key also is to DESIRE. Desire and continue to desire that which is the highest good for you. This desire needs to be continued in awareness, for not all desires are of the highest good, some are desires which are created in need, and weakness.

When you walk the path of love and are aware of yourself, you will start to clear away those desires that do not serve you, for love will guide the way. Your self love will make you aware of short circuits in your life, you will feel what is good for you, and what is not, you will start to have feelings of confusion or feelings of weakness when you get something that is not for the highest good. Listen to your feelings and when you are feeling strong resistance to what you desire, check to see is it a sabotaging feeling or one that says this is not good for you.

When you start to trust your feelings and in awareness learn what you are being guided to with your feelings, your life becomes effortless, for feelings are our natural Geiger counter, showing the way, it is up to you to discern where your feelings are taking you.

On the other hand, as I was saying, its cleansing for there are desires that are not for the greatest good that must be seen and become aware of. For there are things we desire that are self destructive and out of our program of lack. These desires must be seen and taken responsibility for and changed. Such as taking drugs, desire to hurt others, desire to destroy , some desires come from a place of fear. These must be seen recognized and cleared.

The desires of Love always make you feel good , not only to yourself but others. Desires of Love uplift you in a light way so that you are happy to be alive. The desires of Love makes you feel joy in nature and with others as well as with yourself. Destructive desires creates fear and is destructive to yourself and others. .





This place will bring you more, as in a garden that is well cared for and loved

See your life as the garden of your existence, continue to clean it cultivate it creating what you desire … in



feel the energy of love renew you

feel the energy of love heal you

feel the energy of love caress you


feel how that energy will change your life